Sound advice from my younger self
A bit of a retro post today for Six Word Saturday. Recently I was scrolling back through some old posts and enjoying doing so very much. I've had a rather long break from the blog and it's good to be back. Reading one of the posts that I found it felt like I was talking to myself now from my self of a few years ago. What I wrote is still so relevant today! I often think about things that I would like to tell my younger self and I find writing letters to my younger self a very useful thing to do. It was nice to receive some sage words from my younger self.
Here is a copy of the words from the post, originally written December 11th, 2010 -
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Set goals........and always remember to carry loads of courage and kindness. I am feeling pretty proud of myself. I did go along to the poetry group today and I did read my two poems as planned. Well done to me!
I have been thinking about how I have been able to be successful recently at things that I wasn't able to do in the past. I spent a lot of time in the past setting goals - meeting some and not others. What was missing I think was kindness towards myself. I was very hard on myself when I failed to meet one of my own goals. A lot of my goals I set were around talking and I failed to meet many of them. I wanted to talk in groups but just couldn't seem to do it. I was always very disappointed with myself but this didn't seem to help in any way. It was only when I started offering kindness to myself that things slowly started to shift.
Knowing that I will be kind to myself regardless of whether I meet my goals has actually resulted in me successfully meeting more goals.
So...I am glad that I managed to do what I wanted to today but I like to think I would now be offering kindness to myself if it had not worked out so well. There will always be more opportunities to meet goals with the help of courage and kindness.
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Here's to continuing on with loads of courage and kindness!